“The death of one man is a tragedy. The death of millions is a statistic.” Joseph Stalin.
Recently, a 19-year-old boy from Ghana committed suicide, having arrived at Calais as a refugee. Sadly, he is one of hundreds, who have taken their own life whilst seeking help from Europe. Who is to blame for the deaths of so many people? Helprefugees.org have stated the death toll stands at around 35,000. 27,000 drowned. 600 murdered. 500 suicides. Many of these suicides are children, but all of them people. A third of children evicted from “The Jungle” vanished. It’s unbearable to think about what happened to them. The Guardian recently wrote of the children forced to prostitute themselves to secure travel over the border, while Save the Children confirmed children are getting food and shelter in return for sex. Why are we putting borders before people? “These very young, and particularly at-risk girls, who are among the invisible flow of unaccompanied migrant minors….in an attempt to reunite with their relatives…” (The Guardian). The charity stated that more than “1,900 girls had been sexually exploited…between January 2017 and March 2018…” Who is responsible for the deaths and sexual exploitation of these people?
On 26th April 2016 the UK Parliament voted 294 to 276 to reject 3,000 Syrian child refugees who had travelled to Europe. Conservative MP’s voted to prevent children being given a haven; yet offering safety to just minors should have been the bare minimum. The world will look back on that day and say, “never again”. As we all have, time and time again. When people say “if I was there I would have…” The reality is, what you are doing now, what you are saying now, is what you would have done in 1942 Nazi Germany, or in Stalinist Russia, or during the slave trade, or apartheid. Our time is now; to make a difference to how people are treated. To show compassion to those who ask for our help. Human beings have carried out millennia of mass murder, genocide and torture against their own species; while those unaffected turn a blind eye. Like a child who covers their face and thinks no one can see them.
Why do so many treat refugees like this? What makes them less important to our governments? Is it that Parliament is a mirror of the people; they vote against kindness, because that’s what the public would want? Is it the right-wing press propagating a hateful version of our society to back moderate Tories into a corner? As individuals we can make a difference, by the way we vote at General Elections. It is our responsibility to cast our vote in the ballot box to represent the ideals we want for our society.
When that photo of the tiny child (Omran), sitting in an ambulance, bleeding and covered in dirt was published or the picture of Alan Kurdi’s body being recovered from the water, the world wept for the horror and pain. It’s a struggle to believe that so many people do not care. It is possibly the inability to understand such fear and pain, and so we switch off, letting the fascist right-wing press shout their hate speech. To be human, is to have humanity. Sometimes it takes a picture of a dead boy on a beach, or the suicide of a 19-year-old, to remind us we are all one people.
Why do we let people suffer because their nationality is not the same as ours? Just because a group of people are from the same country, does not mean they are any more similar than someone from thousands of miles away. We are all different, and yet, we are the same. Is it time to view borders in a different way to the past?
What makes a person travel so far, over land and sea, through hell, and at the end of it all takes their own life? Is it to get benefits? Bear in mind that 35,000 people have died, 27,000 crossing oceans. The media often use incorrect terms to describe refugees. They use the word “migrant” interchangeably. Refugee describes people who cannot return to their home country, because they face persecution, torture, imprisonment and death. Migrants chose to travel for work, money or to live with relatives. This is an important distinction to understand why someone risks their life and the lives of their children. The people who have taken that fatal trip have travelled to survive.
The Tories often boil it down to budgets and money; “money doesn’t grow on trees”. Well nor do people. People must come before money. Further, it’s not that black and white. Money for a wealthy western country is not as hard to find as the Conservatives would have you believe. When will Western governments realise that when we treat people with kindness, invest in them and their futures, great things can happen. It is short sighted to see refugees as a burden. People who have survived an unimaginable hell, that most cannot possibly fathom, have qualities/abilities that bring innovation and development.
The 19-year-old boy who killed himself, did it in Calais. Having lived in Ghana, through violent conflict, having travelled thousands of miles to try and find safety; a reprieve from hell. Remember, he did not kill himself when he still lived in destruction, but in a refugee reception centre in Calais. Throughout the horrific journey, throughout the abuse, the psychological effects, the pain of looking for salvation, he persevered. The hell he would have endured is nothing that you and I can relate to. His hopeful quest for a new life in Europe came to an end in Calais, so close to the borders of Britain. He lost hope. In his despair, he took his own life. Because no one in the world would help him, no one offered him safety. Do not think of this young man as a refugee statistic, but a person. A person, like you and I, who has hopes and dreams, who smiles and cries, who went to school, who had a family.




